Joy with Pain in PY3

So much of living in the pandemic heading into year three is finding joy in moments to get through the painful ones, which keep coming wave after wave. We’re in wave 5 now, depending on how you interpret the math, and at 12K new cases a day again the hospitals are filling and getting overwhelmed. In a country roughly the size of Maryland. We’re back in the pain. 6 months into a J&J shot I know my immunity is weakening and last week a woman in my Dutch class texted us after class to let us know her husband had just tested positive and she texted again 2 days later when she also tested positive. Her kids are at school with my kid and we’re getting increased notifications from the school on faculty, students and parents testing positive. Until a press conference last Tuesday nearly all of the safety measures had been lifted in the Netherlands. Masks weren’t required anywhere except public transport and some municipalities but not in stores, classrooms, restaurants. With the new measures announced last Tuesday and now in place as of this past Saturday, QR codes are required in more places and compliance will be monitored. Masks are required inside stores and public transport platforms and some other places again. More measures may be announced this Friday. We’re waiting for the government to announce when and to whom boosters will become available.  The vaccine has not yet been approved for children under 12 in the EU. So basically, we’re in the shit again. It sucks.

You have to find the joy in order to make it through this stuff. It’s winter. It’s dark and I have SAD and the weather is beastly so it’s harder for me this time of year. I start googling LA and wondering if I’d like living there. But I love Amsterdam and the point is you have to find the joy and the Netherlands is a good place to find the joy. Summer is so spectacular in the Netherlands the joy abounds, but there’s beauty and vitality in all the seasons. The twinkling white lights in the trees and along the canals. The canals, always the canals. Biking home from a candlelight classical music concert tribute to Freddie Mercury and Queen in the pouring rain. Walking through the seafoam along the beach while the North Sea churns. Candles burning from morning through night. Snert and Ollibollen. St. Maartins lanterns and candy.

And Brian. Always Brian.

Sunday James went mountain biking with some friends and still had time on the rental car when he got back so we took a late afternoon drive to the North Sea, about 25 minutes away.
It was dark, windy and rainy and the North Sea was crazy rough. It was high tide so there wasn’t much beach but Brian still had lots of room to run and he did swim a little bit even though it was cold and there was so much sea foam. It was a little scary because it was definitely treacherous. Don’t mess with the sea, man.
James and I went to a candle light concert put on by a quartet of classical musician performing a tribute to Queen and Freddie Mercury. It was in an old building that looked like a church. It was beautiful. But it was pouring down rain after and we had to bike all the way home from Center in it.
The less glamorous part of living in the Netherlands is you arrive everywhere looking like a drowned rat. It feels good to get home and get cozy afterwards.
We bought our first oysters of the season at the Saturday market
James is really good at shucking them now. He said it’s one of his newly acquired pandemic skills.
I still love all the zero alcohol options here. It’s time for fancy winter cocktails.
This old man
We got Brian a new name tag made and a few weeks after he got it James noticed it’s misspelled and says BRAIN.